His silences have become more significant than his words. Did he learn it from his mother?She’s the woman with the trick of raising one eyebrowin response to the movements of your mouth.The only time I notice her eyebrows, in fact,is when one of them is pushing itself up above the other:a microcosm of the macrocosm:her way of raising herself up above me or anyone elsewho needs putting in place. He told me last night that he wants to listen and understand me.That’s new, and I appreciate the intention and the follow through.I really do. But those damn silences.The one from…